5 Signs that your Budgie HATES YOU

5 Signs that your Budgie HATES YOU

We all want to believe that our pets will love us from the minute we get them from the store. But things don’t always work out that way – sometimes they don’t like us and in some instances they flat out hate us. And budgies aren’t any different – they can hate you as passionately as they can love you.

So the sooner you figure out whether your budgie hates you, the sooner you can avoid further altercations. That’s why we have decided to use today’s post to discuss signs that your budgie hates you. So if you don’t know what to look out for, you’ve come to the right place – here are 5 signs your budgie hates you:

Flying and jumping in the cage crazily

If your budgie constantly flies and jumps around in their cage erratically whenever you come around, you should be concerned. This is usually a sign of fear and is commonly observed when you first bring a budgie home, particularly when you reach out for it.

But if you’ve had your budgie for a while and he is already hand trained, chances are that he hates you. If the flying and jumping around persists, you’ll have to reduce your trips to your budgie’s cage first as you try to get them to warm up to you.

Biting your fingers

Budgies and other birds don’t regularly bite the fingers of their owners. So if this is what is happening with your bird, you should look into it. It could mean that the bird is in pain or discomfort, warranting a visit to the vet.

On the other hand, it could be a sign that your bird is stressed, afraid, or feels like it should defend itself against you. In such cases, this behavior is usually accompanied by them lunging toward you. So if your budgie exhibits this behavior and has no underlying medical condition, there’s a chance they hate you.

So the sooner you figure out whether your budgie hates you, the sooner you can avoid further altercations. Signs that your budgie hates you..

Getting nervous when you enter the room

When a budgie hates you, they feel nervous when you’re around and generally do everything they can to get away from you. This desire can make them stick to the corners of their cages when you come around, especially when you stretch your hands toward them. It can also make your budgie:

  • Refuse to eat when you’re around because they feel like lowering their neck to do so makes them vulnerable to attacks from you
  • Tremble and pant
  • Pass liquid poop
  • Widen their eyes

Flapping its wings when you approach

It’s normal for budgies to flap their wings from time to time. They do this in the morning to stretch and can also do it as a form of exercise. However, if they only do this erratically when you approach, it’s a sign that they hate or at least dislike you.

Screaming a lot

Another sign that your budgie hates you is that they scream a lot whenever you’re around them. This usually means that they are scared of you or view you as an intruder. Whichever the case, you’ll need to find a way to get this sorted out.

Why does your budgie hate you?

Once you establish that your budgie hates you, it’s time to figure out why. While sometimes you can figure this out on your own, sometimes you’ll have to get a vet involved. Some common reasons include:

You need to take it easy and be gentle


Budgies take a while to adapt to change – they shy away from unfamiliar people and situations. So if you just got your budgie, they are going to be unsettled and scared for a while before they get used to you. Insisting on playing with the uncomfortable budgie will only make them hate you more and more.


If a budgie mistrusts you, they will hate and reject you. Fortunately, hand-reared budgies who have been seeing you around are usually trusting. However, old budgies are a whole different story – they take a lot of time to trust people.


Budgies can hate and reject you simply because you trigger them in some way. Something as minor as wearing a shirt in a color they don’t like is enough to get them to dislike you. So to maintain harmony, it is best to keep track of your budgie’s triggers. Some common ones include:

  • Mirrors – these can confuse budgies
  • Earthquakes
  • Sounds from predators
  • The smell of dogs, cats, and other pets that live in your home
  • The death of a flock member


If your budgie is introverted, they may not like being touched and petted by humans, regardless of whether they are their owners. So if you have been constantly doing this, it may be the reason that they don’t like you. In such cases, it is best to get your budgie another budgie to be their friend.

Trauma due to abuse

Budgies have a good memory – they don’t just disregard their past. So if your budgie has been abused before, it will affect how they behave today. In fact, this experience can make them short with you and make it easier for them to act hatefully toward you.

Always reward your budgie’s good behavior

What should you do if your budgie hates you?

Even if your budgie hates you, all’s not lost. There are some things you can do to win them over. These include:

  • Be gentle and patient with your bird. Wait for a while before you approach your budgie
  • Feed your budgie a variety of foods, see which one they like most and use that as a treat
  • Familiarize your bird with your hands so that they can see there’s nothing to be afraid of. You can start by showing them your hands for a few minutes every day – keep this up for 1 to 2 weeks. Once they’re comfortable you can start feeding them treats using your hands
  • Always reward your budgie’s good behavior with petting and treats. Remember to speak softly to them as well
  • Don’t cuddle your budgie when they’re uncomfortable
  • Introduce a new toy to your budgie slowly – place it outside the cage for a few weeks first


Alen AxP is an experienced budgie owner who is passionate about sharing their knowledge and expertise on budgie care. Through their articles and resources, they provide valuable insights and practical tips on topics such as diet, housing, and health, to help other budgie owners create a happy and thriving environment for their feathered friends.

4 thoughts on “5 Signs that your Budgie HATES YOU

  1. Hi! i have a female budgie that I rescued when she was 4 days old. She is one year old now. She was SUPER cuddly and cute. Until recently, she has been very aggressive toward me. I thought it could’ve been a symptom of heartbreak, as her best friend flew out the window sadly, so I got her a friend. A male budgie. They have been bonding and playing together. But Ferdy, thats her name, wont have anything to do with me. I think she hates me. I can’t even touch the cage without her screaming and trying to bite me. 🙁

    1. Hi, don’t feel bad. I had my two female budgies for more than a year and they’re not tame. They’ll tolerate my hand and some light petting. One died from illness and the other became even more distant like she blamed me. Today she escaped and flew away 😱 I think some birds just don’t like humans ….

  2. I have a parakeet I caught him 2 years ago it was a storm and he flew to me in my yard and I’ve kept him ever since. Since day one he’s not trusted me at all. I come close to his cage he moves away from me he’s never been trusting to anyone I talk with him I feed and water him and clean his cage. But maybe who ever had him before was mean to him? I don’t even know where or how to start training him!

  3. It’s okay. I kinda came on here to get answers to my budgie problems, too. I got my 2 baby ( well, they’re tiny) female budgies 3 months ago, for my birthday. Today I discovered that they pretty much hate me. Whenever I come near their cage, they look like they’re startled. When they’re out of the cage, I can’t even move if I’m in the room without them freaking out. I used to gently touch their heads and feed them millet almost daily, but I don’t know what happened. Recently they’ve been SUPER distant. The other day, they almost flew away. Sometimes, I think I would’ve been better off with a dog, instead. But it’s okay. You know you can win them back, right? Just Google it!

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